Unfortunately, I started having a very difficult time controlling my ejaculation at a young age.
It didn’t matter if I was masturbating, when I would fool around with girls, or when I’d actually make it all the way to sex. The result was always the same. I wouldn’t last more than a few minutes, if that.
At times, it was really bad. I’d either ejaculate in my pants before even making it to sex (so embarrassing), or I’d cum within a minute or two of having sex. Some days, I’d only last a few seconds.
It was terrible, it made me feel like less of a man, and it definitely increased my insecurity and doubt around girls.
So I leaned away from sex more and more.
I would say things like: “I’m just not that sexual of a man” or “sex isn’t that important to me”. In short, I kind of lost that sexual part of myself, which also caused me to lose other parts of my masculine self.
This problem lasted all the way until my 30’s when I met a woman who was much more sexually advanced than me. She wanted a lot more sex, and because I was into her, I was determined to get a handle on this.
This forced me to decide that it was time to get control of this once and for all. No more avoiding. No more excuses. It was time to figure this out!
That’s when I dove in head first, and ended up studying with and learning from some of the world’s best sex and tantra teachers.
Over the next 8+ years, I traveled to countless events, read stacks of books, signed up for expensive private coaching sessions, took online courses, and much more.
In total, I invested thousands of hours of my time, and tens of thousands of dollars of my own money. Fortunately it worked!!
My woman and I will often have sex for 60 or 90 minutes, and it’s not uncommon for us both to have multiple, full-body, rolling orgasms that can last for minutes at a time (it’s so crazy).
We have sex in all different places, from different rooms in the house, to tents and outdoor dwellings, to wild places on the road.
When we have sex, she moans, and moans, and moans, and has this look on her face after we finish like I’ve just fucked her into a different dimension. It’s very satisfying as a man.
Sometimes, we’ll have sex multiple times a day. It’s like we just can’t keep our hands off each other.
And our sex keeps getting wilder, more adventurous, and more pleasurable, which is a constant source of fun and excitement in our lives.
We have an amazing assortment of different sex cushions, pillows, toys, and fun things that we both love using in the bedroom.
All of this has made our relationship rock solid -- because you simply don’t argue as much when you’re having great sex all the time.
Plus it needs to be said: this whole experience has made me a much better man! I feel more confident, more relaxed, and more powerful, both in the bedroom, but also in life.
There’s something about pleasuring your woman like this, and remaining in control of your sexual energy, that does wonders for your self esteem and confidence.
There’s really nothing like it, actually.